The most important subject in my mind these days is being a "man". I'm trying to know my duties. In fact I see my duties most emphasized than my rights.
And exactly this is the question. I mean that most of my friends are not like this. They always tell me that my inordinate sensitivity will inconveniences me.
I tried to leave this mentality frequently but always something happened and made me think again. You know, there are two kinds of people; One who always uses other people to achieve his goals, and another one who always worries about his duties into others.
Well, most of my friends are in the first group. And I'm most near to second one. But maybe I'm not right and I should go to other side.
One day I was talking with some of my friends about these subjects and finally we found out that there is a "translator" between men and women that enforces them to lie sometimes.
Imagine that you are going back from work in evening and your wife had enjoined you to buy something from drugstore for her. Unfortunately you forget her order and you just remember when you see your wife's face asking you: "Did you buy the drug?"
Men from the first group, which I mentioned above, usually lie in this case and fix the problem so easy. For example they say: "Drugstore was closed honey. I'll buy it tomorrow." because if they say "I forgot", that sentence automatically will be translated to "Honey! You are not that important to me, and sometimes I'm not thinking to you!"
But men from second group are not good lairs. If they face some problem like this, they confuse and start to apologize because of their mistake and go through aftermaths.
What do you do in this situation? Which group are you in?